relationships

For Husbands Pt. 2

If you missed Part 1, click HERE to catch up—it lays the foundation for everything we’re about to build on. Don’t sleep on it. These 9 ways every husband can love and serve his wife are game-changers.

Last week, we started this conversation by highlighting how clarity leads to transformation—and transformation happens through intentional action. Today, we pick up where we left off, walking through the final four ways husbands are called to love and serve well.

But before we dive in, here’s something every man needs to hear:

Our culture gets stronger when men love and serve the women in their lives.​
This isn’t just about husbands and wives—it’s about brothers and sisters, fathers and daughters, mentors and peers. But the marriage covenant? That’s the training ground. It's where sons and daughters learn, not just by teaching, but by watching love in action.

Imagine if every child grew up witnessing a man consistently love, honor, and serve their mother. Imagine the ripple effect. That’s how generational health starts. That’s how culture is rebuilt—from the inside out.

So husbands, let’s not underestimate the influence we hold. Your daily commitment to love and serve your wife can shape your home—and through it, shape the world.

Let’s walk through the final four.

4 Ways to Love & Serve Your Wife

6. Pursue Intimacy and Delight

“Be lost in her love forever.” – Proverbs 5:18–19​
​Stay captivated by her—emotionally, spiritually, and physically.

Practice:

• Schedule regular date nights and protect that time.
• Flirt with her like you’re still pursuing her—because you are.

7. Protect the Covenant

“Do not act treacherously against the wife of your youth.” – Malachi 2:15​
​Stay faithful—your marriage is part of God’s bigger plan.

Practice:

• Set boundaries that guard your heart from temptation.
• Renew your vows through your actions—every single day.

8. Prioritize Oneness

“Leave and cleave—become one flesh.” – Genesis 2:24​
​Build unity that breaks generational patterns and creates legacy.

Practice:

• Make shared goals and dreams part of regular conversation.
• Deal with unresolved baggage so nothing stands between your unity.

9. Fulfill Your Responsibility

“Give what is due in love and service.” – 1 Corinthians 7:3​
​Show up—emotionally, physically, and spiritually—for her good.

Practice:

• Be consistent in meeting her needs—don’t wait to be asked.
• Keep pursuing her heart, even in seasons when connection feels difficult.

Husbands, this is a lifelong journey—so stay the course.​
Marriage isn’t about perfection; it’s about gracious persistence. And the good news? Time is on your side. Every new day is another opportunity to grow into the man, the leader, the husband you were created to be.

So take your next breath with purpose.
​Be present. Be intentional. Be faithful.

See her.
Savor her.
Sacrifice for her.
Serve her.

And as you do, watch your marriage flourish—and watch your life become a blessing to every soul connected to it.​
This is how legacies are built. This is how heaven breaks into homes.

So again...
​Lean in. Lead well. Love strong.​
Let’s go, husbands—you’ve got this.

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Dewayne & Wendy
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