"The Kind of Man the World Needs Right Now"


💥 FOR THE BROTHERS

A Word on Manhood, Mission, and Marriage


🖤 Gratitude First
To those who’ve been reading, replying, and sharing these emails — thank you.
Your feedback? 🔥
Your connection? 🙌🏽
Your support? Priceless.

If something here adds value to your life, share it.
Someone in your circle needs what’s blessing you. That’s how we build… together.


📣 FOR MEN: A Personal Note

When I write or coach with men in mind, I’m thinking about my own sons (ages 15–22).
What would I say to them?
What would I want them to understand?

It always circles back to three things.
Three fundamentals that shape healthy manhood.
Because let’s be real:

Healthy men → Healthy marriages → Healthy families → Healthy communities

This is why we must invest at the root:
The heart of a man.


💔 Let’s be honest...

Many of us have felt the pain caused by a father… or by a husband.
And whether passive or harmful, the common thread is the same:
👉🏽 An unhealthy man.


🔑 The 3 M’s of Masculinity


1️⃣ MAN

✔ Be true to your healthiest self.
✔ Insecurity leads to passivity or aggression.
✔ Security leads to purpose, presence, and building others up.

🧠 Secure men work.
👀 Secure men stay watchful.
🗣 Secure men speak life.


2️⃣ MISSION

🛠 Men were built for more.
A man disconnected from purpose is a man drifting.

🌍 Mission roots us in meaning, keeps us grounded, and draws out our best.


3️⃣ MARRIAGE

💡 Not every man will marry.
But every man will influence others through how he loves.

🔥 Love begins with sacrifice.
Especially for the woman who raises your children.


⚠️ Real Talk:

This may sound old school… but show me a woman who doesn’t want to see more men:

✅ Secure in themselves
✅ Submitted to a cause bigger than them
✅ Sacrificing for others

That’s the manhood our world needs.
That’s what I’m after.


💬 Final Word for My Brothers:

If you’ve lost focus, paused, or felt stuck…

👉🏽 Hit the refresh button.
👉🏽 Re-engage.
👉🏽 Pursue the version of manhood that brings life to everyone around you.

The world changes when we change. Let’s grow together. 💪🏽

🧰 COMING SOON:

My First Digital Coaching Tool for Men

You’ll get first access right here.

But until then, here’s a sneak peek of the first conversation every man must have with himself 👇🏽

C1 - PRIORITIES & VALUES


👀 Stay tuned — more conversations and tools are on the way.
Let’s keep growing together.

Dewayne

Teaching Resources

  1. Teach the Bible Podcast - Spotify & Apple
  2. Wednesday 12P Live Teaching - Zoom Link (ID: 856 0148 1254 & Code: 612432)

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